If you don’t have a mentor, find one.

Remember that your present self is the result of every thought you’ve thought and every decision you’ve made throughout your life so far. Your best thinking has got you to where you are now.
If you’re not totally happy with where you are now, it means that your own thinking has failed you to some extent.

By finding a mentor and picking their brain, you can access the strategies that will take you to where you want to be.